Autism, family

Joining the slime craze!

So I’ve been meaning to share this post for 6 months! Maybe longer and thought I had when I realised it’s been sitting here the whole time not sent… so without further ado. How we made slime…..

We decided to make slime. I use to do this years ago and it is so much easier than I thought and most important all the kids had fun.


  • Clear glue (we had “slime glue” but really it’s just plain clear glue)
  • Borax powder (fund in the laundry aisle at the shops)
  • Glitter
  • Water
  • Tubs/ bowls/ spoons to mix in
  • Zip lock bags or resealable containers to store it in.


First I poured out equal amounts of glue into posts. The kids then chose their glitter and mixed it in.

Pour 1 cup warm water into container and add 1-2tsp of borax powder- mix well.

If doing different slime types now is the time to do your extras- we added hand cream for one and shaving cream for another. Mix well.

Add 1 tsp at a time of borax water to the glue mixture and stir. The more you add the harder the slime.

The kids loved this part watching the texture change. Once stirred pick it up and play!

Slime can be an amazing sensory tool for kids Autistic or not. Give them slime and something changes- they feel it, they mould it within their fingers and you can see tension immediately start to melt. Even months after we made this if things were getting intense I would just bring out the packets . I would start playing with it myself and they would immediately be wanting to have a turn, or else after a long progressive meltdown it’s a great way to unwind and settle.

As you can see there are so many ways to play with slime and so many more . Kids will figure it out, mix their own and want to try different concoctions- let them have failures it’s a science lesson in what works and what doesn’t then repeat again and see what does- why does the slime with hand cream feel softer than the slime with shaving cream? You can skip these questions in as well and then your even teaching something! Lol!

I hope you enjoyed my post. I have more to come

Birth, Uncategorized

Why I became a Rainbow Of Hope Doula?


When Bailey was stillborn, we recieved very little information from the hospital. They did what they could, but didn’t have resources or the information needed to give to us. We felt very alone and knew nothing of what would happen. We were so very lucky to have amazing drs, midwives and pastoral care support, but still felt alone in the processs.

When I became pregnant with Geoffrey Within 3 mths, I was surrounded in fear. Would my baby die? There was no more innocence in pregnancy. No magic 12 week number. We didn’t announce our pregnancy until after 20 weeks when we couldn’t hide any longer. I wanted to make memories with my baby while I could, bond with him, but was  scared to, incase he died. How do we explain to our girls. Each appointment full of fear and hope that our baby would be ok. Still grieving the little Baby not in our arms. It was a mixture of emotions, turmoil, fear and hope. I wanted him out as soon as possible so he would be ok. I didn’t trust my body anymore. As a mother this is heartbreaking. With an amazing and supportive Paul, my wonderful OB, regular Councelling, and our Doula we went to 34 + weeks of pregnancy when I gave birth. I know that without that support, my journey and birth would have been very different.

I became a doula to support woman and give them hope, show them how to be free from fear, know their options, support their decisions and to be by their side during their journey. I know that Fear is real, but also that Hope defeats fear. I want to share this Hope with woman and their families.

A Rainbow baby is defined as “a baby born following a miscarriage, stillbirth or loss of a child”
In the real world, a beautiful and bright rainbow follows a storm and gives hope of things getting better. “The beauty of a rainbow doesn’t negate the ravages of a storm. When a rainbow appears, it doesn’t mean the storm never happened or the family isn’t still dealing with grief. What it means is that something beautiful and full of light has appeared in the midst of darkness and clouds. Storm clouds may still hover, but the rainbow provides a counter balance of colour, energy and Hope ”

When we first see that positive pregnancy test woman are often filled with mixed emotions, and for many fear is one of them, especially after a loss. This needs to change to hope, and Joy, and knowledge that our bodies aren’t broken.

Many woman grow up surrounded by traumatic or pain filled birthing stories. Sometimes it seems the “worse” the story the more they are shared. The media, television and movies all portray birth as scary, painful and unrealistically. Mums waters break, she starts screaming in pain, she starts pushing and within minutes a baby is born. Totally unrealistic and scary. Birth doesn’t have to be this way. Our own experiences can even impact our fears. We have learnt to fear birth, our bodies and the process instead of learning to trust our bodies and working with the sensations.

I believe woman can birth with Hope, without fear and even without pain. Through support, love, hypno-birthing and  using different relaxation and coping techniques as well as arming themselves with knowledge, woman and their support partners can achieve a calm, fearless hope filled birth. Even in situations which change, with support any birth can be full of love and peace and hope instead of Fear.

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